Congratulations on your upcoming wedding.
Whether it’s your first marriage or second, third etc and you may be commencing a step family, pre-marriage counselling can help you work through situations that may affect your marriage and help you live a happy relationship.
How are you? Busy organising your wedding, picking bridesmaids, groomsmen, the dress, the venue, the flowers, cake, shoes etc etc what time do you really have to work out how your marriage is going to work.
May I just share one thought with you, what happens when the honeymoon is over and you are back to your normal lives?
Let me share a client’s journey:
A couple attended my office after their 10 year Anniversary (before they got married they never attended pre-marriage counselling) as they had experienced so many issues during their relationship because of this one situation and were at a crossroad they never thought of.
You see, she never wanted to have children and her husband was told by family and friends, don’t worry she will change her mind. He desperately loved her however also wanted to be a father. His choice was to marry her and hope for the best.
OUTCOME – we worked together through couples counselling and after numerous sessions, his burning passion to be a father won. She just did not want to have children (her own reasons) and they separated, devastated, they had grown to truly love each other and each only wanted the best for the other.
Now he is single and looking for a love similar to what he had experienced over the past 10 years with one change the lady would like children. He phoned me approximately six months after the separation and advised he was still alone, most ladies he met had children and didn’t want anymore. They were happy for him to parent their children however his passion is to have a child of his own.
A simple misunderstanding has created a devastating outcome.
You and your future husband/wife talk but are you really hearing what they are saying, the meaning behind.
Would you love to experience an amazing wedding and then years of arguing and fighting because you didn’t clean up some major questions initially?
This service is offered through private appointments in person or skype.
I understand the first step is the hardest step to take, but don’t hesitate, if you are seeking a forever marriage when the wedding is over with the love of your life, call 0426 218869 or email me at [email protected] Refer to Fee Schedule